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What Is The Difference Between Swinging And Prostitution?

Swinging is consensual sex between Adults.

Swinging is not a form of prostitution - No Money Changes Hands and people only have sex with people they find attractive.

In the swinging Lifestyle No-one is obliged to have sex.

Swinging and Prostitution are very different and not compatible.

There are a few of wrong ideas about swinging that we need to set right.

1. Swinging is free sex.

  • Yes, swinging is free sex, but sex is only between consenting adults who are attracted to each other.
  • The only time money should change hands in the swinging lifestyle is to make a donation to the person arranging a swingers party or to pay the owners of a swingers club to cover the costs of food, drinks, entertainment and wear and tear on their property.

2. Women who swing are prostitutes.

  • No, women who have sex with other people for free are not prostitutes, they are swingers.
  • A real swingers club or party will never pay a women to have sex with the guests.
  • As soon as a woman is paid to have sex with people at a club or party she is no longer a swinger, she has now become a prostitute.
  • Any clubs that list themselves with us as a swingers club, then pay a female member of staff to have sex with the men will be deleted from our lists.
  • Please make us aware if any female members ask for payments to meet or to engage in sexual activity, we will remove them from the site.

3. If a woman is having sex in a club, we can all join.

  • No. The woman has the right to choose which man or men she has sex with. She may choose not to have sex at all.
  • In the swinging scene all sex must be consensual, the woman chooses who she wants to have sex with.
  • If a man tries to have sex with a woman after she, or her partner, has told him no; He is now committing a sexual assault and the hosts and other guests should pull him away and report him to the police for attempted rape.
  • If the other men at a party let a man have sex with a woman after she has said no, they are guilty of assisting in a rape and are also guilty of rape under the law.

4. The same rules apply to men.

  • Any man accepting payment for sex is a Gigolo (male prostitute), not a swinger.
  • Please make us aware if any male members ask for payments to meet or to engage in sexual activity, we will remove them from the site.
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